Why~ Oh WHy :(

its 5.30 in the morning and im still sitting here with my lappie thinking of wats gonna happen in life.. thats a freaking shit that u only get to do when everyone else is asleep.. soo i guess since there is no living humans rite now to talk to.. and i tried speaking to my teddies and the respond was very bad... i decided to blog :) 

so here we go .. a small pathway thru my tiny small brain :) ( not tat i meant im dumb or anyting.. i just said tat cos it sound cute )  anyway back to the topic..oh wait~!~ i din even say wats the topic?? did i? now im just confuring all and myself...

Anyway.. im kindda feeling lost... and little bit sad.. and mix with a little bit upset and all together makes me wanna cry.. ask me why please!! ask me why~!!!!!! okay.. first of all I really miss my old days when i was in MMU with my frens and all my buddies.. sitting and chilling eating burgers and having awesome fantabulous time together.. and all i have today is nothing but memories... it sux... cos nothing can replace frens.. and for me.. frens are my life!! :( soo yeah... missing my old days.. cos now when im working in office enviroment.. is just not the same anymore.. its tottaly like a new place and new people and they are just not really best budds that goes out and chill together.. they are more like the office mate for lunch or dinner at the office cafeteria kind of people u know wat i mean :)

ILAH~~

Anyway.. why im sad second is.. after all this years.. i found two very close frens of mine.. one arabian sweet awesome and dead crazy girl.. sameera.. and another Malay fren sweet caring a loving fadhilah... okay this gona sound weird and flowery.. sorry sameera I know ur not expecting flowery message from me especially ,,hahahhaha anyway.. I start with my longest best buds which is my preggie Ilah..she is my advisor.. my mommy.. my listener..she is very calm and seems to know wats she is doing all the time.. i am the tottaly oppsite of her..full of anger and always so messed up not organized or calm..together we are the YING YANG.. now i know why i am black and she is white.. awesome..cos we are YING YANG.. damn it i wish i was the white one tho.. anyway back to topic!!! sheesh.. i can divert so far on just my skin color :P hahah..anyway...she is the one tat always will be there.. in a dilemma.. ILAHH!!!! she is there.. sadness..ILAHHHH she is there...even during constipation if i see her i probably will feel much better :) haehehehehhe.. to be honest she is really a very helpful and always with a solution to everyproblem i ever own.. she knows how to calm me when im pissed and make me smile when im sad... but now she is now pregnent.. of cos im happy for her.. there is no reason to be sad watsoever.. but the sad thing is.. now she will have her baby to pay all her attention to.. and im gonna so be left out once her family is complete with a crying machine.. ( yes illah babies cries alllll da time.. dun come telling me my babies different  ) and yeah dun forget they are gonna be a shitting machine as well.. beware..tats why i ask u to adopt me instead.. i wont cry nor shit.. :) ill be the best daugher to u.. :P hahha anyway.. apart from being sad im gonna loose my sweet loving ilah after she is gonna divert all her attention to her new born baby..:( who im gonna cry too then :( :( who la i wanna whine too then.. she will be having a massive headache when i do another ILAAHHHHHHH!!!! :P heheheheheh

SAMEERA

My partner in crime.. Sameera ... the crazy girl that might ending me up in a JAIL for our crazines. the one that i always goes and spend hours on gossping with her... and we will do our makeup on each other.. pedi and medi session.. movie partner.. KL shopping partner.. any adventure trips.. scuba diving.. madness trip in the car with speed... teaching her how to drive.. and seeing how shinny and bright her face lit up when i allow her to fill in the fuel in my car... seing her able to drive manual and she will be super happy to even move the car for like 1 KM it made her feel like she has drove for over 100 Mile.. the party girl.. tat though me how awesome it is to have ONLY girls party and no GUYS are allowed.... Thought me alot about ARABIAN food......cooked for me like awesome traditional food ... picnic at CYBER lake... TIOMAN, PERHENTIAN.. snorkeling... swimming.. my GYM and ZUMBA partner.. my god the list will go on and on .. will never stop...
 If you are wondering why they hell am i talking about her... and yes she is surely NOT  pregrnent if u think she is :P 

The reason i am talking about her is because she is LEAVING :( and i mean leaving Malaysia and going back for good.. ( hate it when they say for good.. tho for me is for bad ) cos im gonna miss her.. her stupid funny jokes...her annoying laugh... her craziness and everything about her... im gonna miss you sameera.. wallahi i cant seriously imagine how wud it be when ur going back... im gonna loose not just my best fren but a sister.. i wish im not there to say goodbye.. but i cant afford to let u leave without seeing u for the last time... my shopping and my movies and my adventure trip wud be soo soo empty without u with me.. I feel im loosing the other side of my active body when ur going back.. But hey!! at least the memories remains.. :) and tat for sure no one can take it away :)

I am surely gonna miss u majnoona.. Wallahi soo much tho it makes me sound like a freaking lesbian for a moment.. i dont care.. i only have the both of you in my life.. and surely it will impact me alot :( but watever it is.. u are always welcome to Malaysia.. u know ill always greet u with arms wide open.. but if u din buy me anyting from there ill kick u back to ur country hah~


And after you are gone... i am gona be sticking like a glue to ILAH :P hehehe haiii babe **bats eyelashes annoyingly** hahahahahhah and now since ur the only one left for me to bother.. :) ull have two babies to take care of :D hahahhahahah ur nitemare is just starting babe :D weee ^____^

THE AWESOME MOMENTS THAT I WILL CHERISH FOREVER :) 

Anyway :) this is a small of wats in my brain at this point of time...and hope u guys enjoy this weird mushy and fuzzy feelings blogging today :P hahahahhaha till next time :) astala vista :)

This is dedicated to my TWO BESTIES.. ur the reason im still awake till 6.17am.. and now u have to treat me Nandos and TGIF! :P hahahahahha 

 

I WUV U GUYS SO MUCH..XoXO

 

Meow meow :) 

You are bright as a diamond... God Bless you uncle...

There's so much to tell. But I don't know who to tell it to. I would have written a book, but that doesn't seem enough now.. My emotions is mixed now.. sometimes i feel like smiling thinking of the funny moments we spent.. sometimes i just wana break down in tears remembering that all those sweet moments will be left as memories of me and my uncle... Yes today is about my dear beloved Uncle...



Let me bring you towards his characteristic to make you understand what kind of guy he is.. He is tall, slim and slender. Solid body structure not too thin nor too fat. He got a very nice straight hair. he is tall and a little bit dark brown shaded. He is very good looking among his siblings.. he used to be very good looking when he was young thats what my mom use to say... I adore the way he brings himself in public and the way he makes us laugh with his undying jokes.. He use to have it with him.. The AURA.. we call it.. wherever he goes , he wont spend a second without making a person smile or worst burst into tears by laughing on his funny jokes.. I call him the family JOKER.. he is funny, very energetic, always up to some tricks.. his best way of entertaining us is his **magic Show** ... yeah thats what he calls it.. 



I am always looking forward whenever he will be attending any of the functions in my house cos i know he  will always try some new tricks or IQ test for us to try on. We can go on  hours and hours listening to his funny jokes..he always makes us laugh with the answers to his riddle.. he is a good chap... Really amazing attitude, very friendly, always smiling and entertaining people is his passion..



He is the type of guy that people wont get rid off easily.. he is fun and he makes the environment so lively.. with him in any function.. u really dont need entertainer cos he really makes the best out of it.. I really do love my dear uncle so much just as much i love my own father..


The day I heard he was really sick in the hospital really break me to pieces.. knowing the person that used to be soo energetic and never ever felt tired of making people laugh around him is sick?? how could that possibly be... i have always imagine people being sick.. but honestly.. i never ever had that imagination on seeing my uncle sick.. that is like impossible for me seeing him sick.. tho i know it can happen to anyone.. but my energetic uncle was the least suspected. 



The day when the news broke into my house.. I went to the hospital to pay him a visit.. looking at him.. soo skinny.. not have eaten for few weeks.. even when drinking water all he did was puking it back out.. his body digestion system was really bad.. he cant eat nor drink.. he cant sit or sleep... he cant breath properly.. he got problems with his kidney, lungs and his heart.. and he was too weak for another operation.. I was literally dying inside of me seeing him suffering like that.. the lively, funny, crazy and happy go lucky guy that i once known has tottaly dissapeared. he is like a total stranger that i have never met.. he dont look the same anymore.. He was really sick.. and i mean really.....



 2 days i been in and out of the hospital visiting him as im working and that the only time i got to actually visit him.. i brought mom n sis to see him.. we were sitting next to him talking to him.. trying to give him strength talk to him and try to make him laugh so he will forget about his sickness even for 2 minutes we were happy enuff to do so.. Tho he was tired, sick and unable to move properly.. he actually asked them to help him sit up,  and ordered his daighter to find him a pen and a paper.. Getting a pen and a papper he drew a star and give me and IQ question.. To be honest i tried but it didnt work.. I have to admit he is really smart in IQ test and all this IQ question.. I gave up after trying 3 times.. he was teliing me the next day.. that if I wanna learn on the techniques of answering the IQ test.. i had to massage his neck before he pass the info to me.. it made me giggle a little. and i massage his head to make him sleep properly as he didnt sleep for weeks.. 


Today in the morning mom recieve a phone call... he was already in life support.. There is nothing else that the doctors could do to save him.. nothing left to be done except for prayers. At 11.00 am he went on life support machine cos he cant breath any more.. My heart broke when i heard the news.. part of me wants to see him leaving peacefully not wanting him to suffer on the bed dying slowly.. and another part of me wanna hold him so tight not wanna let him go as he was one of the close uncle we had in our family.. loosing him is like loosing a shine bright diamond.. But if God wanna take him away.. I pray that God take him and ends his suffering.. if he is meant to stay.. i wish he would stay healthy... but as doctors says there is no more hope and he is on life support.. i can just pray for the best.. God knows the best.. and God has always known whats will be.. i will be paying him a visit tomorrow morning.. Please stay strong uncle. just let me see u again at least.. i really wish i dont wanna wake up hearing a bad news as i really wanna see him before any bad news..


I am sad knowing im gonna be loosing my uncle... but at the same time.. i wish he will be placed in Jannah ( heaven ) with all those pious people.. and May God cleansed his soul and make him pure as a new born baby.. May god bless him with all his blessings.. and May God give him the strength to go through his last breath smoothly...  Uncle you have been the best friend and an uncle to me.. U have been the funniest entertainer in our family.. ur jokes.. ur funny sms, ur IQ test and also your magic show will always remain in my heart forever.. tho i have never said this to u personally.. I do love you as much as my own father.. you are a real happy go lucky person ive ever seen.. God bless you wherever you are.. 

Please pray that he will be blessed no matter what is his destiny..

A funny Little Thing Just did happen a few weeks ago

Hellow everyone .... that was kind and sweet enuff for you guy to click actually take your time off and click on my blog :) thanks for your the time you guys spent reading on the crap im writing :) tho i am not a good writer.. ill try to not lengthen this blog :)

~~ Behold !!!  one the most funniest and weirdest headline ever ~~ 

A MAN WAS KICKED OUT FROM A COUNTRY BECAUSE HE WAS **TOO HANDSOME**

OK!! some of you may be thinking that ... wadaheck? and its not true~~ but believe me.. i was just like you.. Confused..~.~ how could this be ??? been kicked out from country cos of good looks??.. like Hello?? its a crime to be looking fantabulous??? like wow ~~ cut me some slack??? you really gonna send me away and shooing me out of ur country just cos i am good looking??? that doesnt even make sense~~ dude??? Its like he have to be humiliated and kicked out cos they are afraid women's might get pregnant just by looking at him ?? hahahah... im sorry dear frens.. no offense.. but i do find this ridiculously stupid.. cmon.. a women would actually like wat run hysterically towards him and ask him to marry her?? or they wud assume the girls will be fainting ( like the dramas in the movie ) when they just had one glance at him =.= Seriously??

Im a women.. yes we do adore and fancy guys good looking.. but hello! don't make assumption on how we will behave when we see a good looking guy!!! we are not from planets of APES that we are just having APES around us and ANGEL like him just came outta nowhere and seduce the hell out of us? like hello... come back to reality please


Saudi..ohhhh saudies~  Yes not all of SAUDI thinks like that.. Im sure only some minority people there.. But again How narrow minded could this people be?? so yeah back to the story... When i was chilling at my frens place... she was of course Arabian Girl :) she was like.. hey hey hey you wanna see something really stupid?? ( see thats why i say not all Arabs tho... ) And she was explaining to me on how this guy was so good looking and was sent back home cos of his good looks... i stare at her like for few second to actually absorb whatever she just said to me.. And  before i was shown the picture on how this guy must be looking.. here was wat went through my mind... This guy must looking something similar to this kinda type...

 

Okay thats exaggerating way to much ... tehee ^_^  Im sure by saying TOO handsome.. these people wont be the nearest to it =P

Maybe this Men In Black Down here

But to my surprise!! the moment my fren clicked on the image and typed **OMAR BORKAN AL GALA**

I din even freaking BLINK a second...I swear i was almost swallowed him alive by just looking at his images!! I never imagine he wud be this HOT! literally he was too hot that I started sweating! U see !! the heat from his HOTNESS!! damn :P I guess the dude is too hot that the Saudi's  are afraid that he will turn the whole country to desert probably! =P

This guy didnt even just seduce the hell outta me when i saw his face.. even the falcon was seduced!! hahaha YOU dont believe me :) no worries  .... in a while i will show u pictures that ghe falcon was staring at him :P just like how i wud stare if i was that upclose to his face :P


Yes yes i agree there are HOTTER mans on earth and he is not the HOTTEST! :) but oh well he got a good luck on that day he was kicked out! the next you know! THE WHOLE WORLD ( almost probably half of the world )  knows him.. thats what we call FAME OVER NIGHT! :P damn u lucky guy!! but anyhow :) he was the center of the news for few days :) I am not litterally dying over him or wat.. but i do agree on the fact that he is HOT! 

I am sure alot of others guys must be like!! OH YOU Girls call that HOT?? you are probably blind of something..or some will goes like... girls dont have better things to do and bla bla bla... :) so here on ill say :) yes we dont have better things to do :D yes we do think he is GOOD looking and yes i need to make the GOOD in CAPs so u understand :) and lastly leave him alone..let the boy gets whatever he could for few days at least :)


anyway i know ur eager to know how this SO HOT dude looks like... here i am not gonna blab any longer.. for mens :) dont be a hater.. and for ladies :) Enjoy :)

 

Did you see how the falcon was mesmerized and how its eyes widen up.. Oh I wish i was the falcon tho :P hahahhahha yes yes I am kidding! :P

Anyway im outta words or sentence :) tho i know he is not the Most good looking guy on this planet :) but

i do agree he is ONE of the most good Looking guy on this earth :D 

Unexpected and Unplanned Trip

Just came back from the most extraordinary vacation ever!! and nope its not just a normal gateway..it was an unexpected, unplanned, unorganized yet the BEST trip i had so far in life.. :) i can never describe the feeling of how awesome it was.. but i can take you to the 3 days journey to make u somehow believe me :) hee ^___^


A week before i even go there.. the unexpected and unplanned thing happen :) 

A message from my bestie :) 

salam ya banat kefko,, ..
i remember how awesome was our trip to perhentian island ...
i'd like to have you all again in another trip next weekend ..i'm dying to do snorkeling again ..i choose next weekend because after that its gonna be the Arab season ..ewww
and plz plzz plzzzzzz .. no other ppl ..i want only us
i'm thinking of... tioman or redang island tell me what do you think ??

that was on the 5th of April..Friday.. and exactly next weekend was suppose to be departure time..~~ seriously?? anyone was given that short notice for a vacation.. not mentioning we still din really have any idea its redang or tioman.. and there off we go~~ we search and search and made up our mind on the day after that :) tat was our not so planned holiday.. 


Still not knowing how long to stay..wats the budget like.. where are we gonna stay.. what are we gonna do. no idea at all.. None of us went to TIOMAN before.. so yeap~ dumbfounded on how we can catch up with all these :) anyway tat didnt stop us from going~ 

April 12 2013..

Woke up early to go buy ticket.. found only 1 bus left at 11.00 night... grab that.. and went back home.. informed the girls bus will be leaving at 10.30pm.. at night both of us reached and waiting for another 3 which was like FAR FAR away from the terminal.. and clock was showing 10.45pm.. screamed and yelled in the phone..WHERE ARE YOUU~~~ bUs is moving in 15 minutes!!! i wanna go to TIOMAN~~~hehehehe dramatic moments for a while.. They reach 5 minutes before the bus departure.. we ran and ran.. not even knowing where is the terminal no 4 was at... ++by the way it was our first time in TBS the new bus terminal in KL.... finally reached terminal at exact 11pm..Then.. the announcement : The bus to TIOMAN will be delayed~~.. our face turn to be (=.=) ++ all tat drama was for nothing but just a waste of time..anyway.. we were on the bus at 11.30 and reach Mersing at 6 am..was cold but excited!! went to bus station walking and slept awhile after praying.. woke up at 8.00 to catch our ferry.. and we were so unplanned and unorganized we still didnt decide are we going for a day or two.. so i pleaded the guy to not put any date for our return ferry ticket :) and he was kind enuff to understand :)

2 hours slept on ferry and reached TiOMan with NO where to go.. After walking and finding place to stay, we managed to find accomodation in EAST DIVERS TIOMAN... Amazing place.. nice room with air cond... we were on a student budget so the sister allowed us to squeeze ourself in instead of 3 in a room we ended up with 5 in a room :) yeap we were like a tuna in a can but worth it... :) because it was cheap.. we extended our stay to two days :) with still same budget for a day :) 

April 13 2013

Reached, settle down..changed to swimming attire and we were readyyyy as hell to go snorkeling, awesome boat guy we found.. he gave us discounted price to go to the next island instead of 100 to only 80 per person :) we get to have the boat all to our self,,, it was only 5 of us and we got to choose our destination :D 

we went snorkelling up to 6 pm and we continued swimming in front of our chalet.. it was an awesome day.. we spent going around tioman island and back.. and the boat driver was sooo sweet he actually stopped in the middle of the ocean and let us drive the boat... and all 5 of us got to drive the boat following our turn.. awesomee awesome awesome experience :) 

At night we went for a walk at the small town and had dinner.. came back and doze off immediately despite in a tuna position :) was nice :)

14 April 2013

Woke up early in the morning with nothing in mind to do.. it was raining abit And stopped at 9.00 am
The weather was jst awesome because it wasnt sunny and it was just nice.. I am already BLACK..not planning to sun tan myself more.. so God was on my side tat day..he gave me a day where i can lay down on the beach without being afraid of getting suntanned!  :) awesome .. then again unplanned and unexpected thing happen again.. As we were staying in EAST DIVERS place..we saw few of the divers there going and coming back, practicing diving and having open water courses.. We was soo excited to try and we decided to go for diving... Never in my life i have thought that one day i wud dive~.... and diving was surely not in the list when we planned this vacation.. :) But oh well.. We went.. and snapped some pictures underwater.. amazingggggg feeling.. awesomeness feeling ever...i get to touch a nemoooo~~~ i touched a nemoo!!! (clown fish by the way ) and i was super duper happy!!!!! i never get the opportunity in my life to be so close to underwater creatures and here I am... touching nemo~~ seriously I was happy~~ :) 

And at night we went for SEAFOOD hunting :) we ate like a mad cow :) hahahah ... we chunk the food in less than 15 minutes :) satisfied with the food and service :) went back with full stomach and doze off again.. woke up in the morning and packed and left for home.. sad but happy that we enjoyed our stay.. never ever we thought we wud have this much fun on an unexpected and unplanned journey :) Never will forget this for the rest of ma life :) <3 nbsp="" span="">


Below is the few picca tat i manage to capture with my phone :) 

 

 

 

Words cant describe this feeling inside

Gazing thru different horizon..

Human tend to forget to feel satisfy for watever they have..
they tend to forget that life isnt easy.. well at least for some people..Life changes so quickly that human tend to keep track on what are the main
things in life they are aiming for.. For some people.. life isnt fair.. But that is tottaly wrong as today i felt, life is fair.. is not the quantity of what we have shows the comparison.. but more like the quality of our life itself..we tend to always make ourself in comparisons on what other have that we dont have
But happiness, smile, laughter cant be calculated.. cant be compared..

As i walk around seeing people around me really amuse me.. especially those who are still lost in their life.. no direction.. no visions.. no guidance..just enjoying life.. these are bunch of fortunate people who dont struggle thru their life..meanwhile there are some people that are still struggling just to find a pieces of food to feed empty stomach day and night..Today i witness two different world in a breeze walk thru town..

While walking down the street i came across with a girl that looks approximately 5 to 6 years old.. She was walking around holding flowers in her hand,
she got a sister that was standing not quite far from her , and her mother that just look extreamly exhausted, still with innocent smile across the face while looking at passerby.
How hard must it be for this little girl to grow up on roadside,watching the whole world walk passing by holdings things she cud only dream of getting.. her life only depends on the money that is given by passerby. And what really touched my heart was, instead of a sad looking small girl, i really saw an innocent pure smile on her face....


Walking pass by her and across the street, leaving the kid behind, i continued my steps. Just to find bunch of grown up man dancing around the floor half drunk probably.. Wasting money on unneeded things,
There was smiles too on these mans faces.. But its not a pure smiles that i can see.. It is smile that they dun even notice cos they are drunk or high.. It was JUST a smile..

How my heart skip a beat, as all this i witness on the same street , yet two different world i came across.. it just made me smile on how life can be simply sophisticated for each and everyone..


I know some of u might be thinking whats wrong with me.. as u think i  dont make any sense.. but yet... only my heart felt wat i felt.. i cudnt put it all in words as it
was a feeling that i felt

....Thank you God for all that you have given me..I am blessed.. Forgive me when I whine...

BabySitting Is A Nitemare!!

 WHINING TIME!

Oh My Oh My Oh My! back again after a week of NITEMARE!!

Oh Dont let me start with it.. i can go on and on forever long and still wont be enuff to cover the whole missarable week ive been in!! Oh how i PROVE myself wrong when i thought taking care of a year old girl was a piece of cake! yeah it was a piece of cake.. a MESSY CAKE!!! 

How much thing tiny monster can really cry!! ohhhh!!! god bless me.. it is like a BROKEN PIPE! it never stop yelling and cry.. sleepy cry! hungry cry.. peed cry..  not getting attention cry!! no milk cry!! milk to hot cry!! milk to cold cry!! milk not enuff cry!! milk too much cry!! seriously?? sometimes i feel we need to actually get a PET cow!! just to feed these monsters milk!! the amount they are drinking!! my god.. where does it goes to!! i tink the cow will eventually be super slim if i dedicate one cow to a growing up kid!!

Not forggetting the one and only thing that annoys the hell outta me! The shit tat this monster can provide.. its like UNBELIEVABLE! its like a faulty shitting machine... it keeps on pouring and pouring...and the smell~~ oh dont lemme start with the smell!! they vomit here and there like as if its rainbows falling from their mouth!! never ever feel guilty they can eventually start laughing and continued with watever they are doing! and looking at our face like.. hah!! clean it bitch!! suits u right for not giving wat i wanted! (-- sometimes i feel kids do tat with intention!! they had it all inside of them.. and cover it up with that innocent face n smile!!!

Oh my wat a tiring week.. and wat a tiring time with her.. i feel like i have no life nemore.. no time to makeup or even search for wat outfit to wear the next day.. Eyes are like constantly on them ..now managed to escape as i put her for her 1 hour nap!! finally!! :P sometimes i feel how life wud be easier if we could just actually doze them with cough mixture.. two tablespoon of it and Off they go to the LALAND for few hours extra :D hahahah my evil plan!! :) think shud try it tonite :P hahahah {ps/ if my sis is reading this i am so dead }

Anyway.. apart from my missarable week babysitting a pooping machine... I had a blast time in my cousins wedding.. was amazing.. and elegent!! she had it GRAND! and yeah i mean it GRAND :) looks like a pwincess :) cant believe she is married... anyway here to share some awesome pictures :) Of cos mostly im gona upload my picture cause i was a camwhore the whole day snapping my own picture with different pose.. u cant blame me :) i am a photo addict :) anyway :) enjoy! i need to make this blog as short as i can..because tat pooping machine might wakeup anytime soon!

-- PARENTAL ADVISORY~ Explicit Content--

Back again after sooo long~ :) such a hectic week..my schedule is super pack!! The whole week i am attending GYM , SWIMMING and also KICKBOXING! yeah baby!!
 u heard me.. kickboxing... :) come near me and ur NUTS gone! :D wuuu i sound soo confident :P hahaha i bet i will running while wetting my pants if there is criminals chasin :D <~~ oh cmon!! its just been a week.. cut me some slack will ya! gimme at least few more months! and im sure they will be wetting their pants :D


Anyway im not here to blab on what i am doing the entire week~ cos all i can say in a single word is ~~ A BLOODY SWEATY AND SMELLY ARM PITS whole week~ :)
**~~ oh dont you do the EWWW face! Please!! you been there n done that i bet!!

Anyway today my topic will be mainly about PARENTAL ADVISORY!! yes you saw that right! :) i am off chasing all the parents out there to read this and understand one of the things u need to teach ur kids nowdays!! and yes for me its very important...soo lets get goin!!

To all the parents out there~~ instead of you whining on how kids are in danger and kidnapping crime is happening too much these days~~ why dont you play a role as parents by sending ur kids to self defense classes.. instead of whining that they are in danger~~ and all you do is giving them Ipad, tablets, i phones and all the gadgets to play with.. and all these kids only knows is a VIRTUAL kickboxing from WII~ seriously??? prepare them for the worst case possible~ not with luxury~ 

Parents nowadays are following whatever the kids needs rather than focusing on what is NEEDED for the kids.. they are too pampered nowadays with all this Gadgets and games, Xbox , wii and all these unnecessary things for them! Knowing the facts that you can never teach your kids a VIRTUAL kickboxing from WII or learn how to play street fighter and believe that your kids can fight a criminal with these skills... seriously?? what happen to football? playing in the mud?? kickboxing, Hockey?? tennis?? basketball, netball, softball, and all the balls in the world~ :P haha

Now all they know is ANGRY BIRDS!! TEMPLE RUN!! ANGRY GRANNY!! NEED FOR SPEED!! TALKING TOM!! COUNTER STRIKE!! and all other games expecting them to learn for it?
what?? your gonna teach your kids on how if a PIG stole you eggs you hunt them down and break their houses?? or if there is a group of monkeys chasing you and all you do is try to run away, try to jump and dont fall in the water while collecting coins at the same time?? ** helloo!!! i wanna see you collect coins as much as in the game but in real life!! dont put fake hopes to these poor little kids ... making them believing that you actually can collect coins as monkey's chasing you!! tats NOT REALITY!! and you think by giving them NFS ( Need for Speed ) they could actually CRASH the COPS car and get away wit it without a fine!! and even get rewarded if they got the 1st in the game?? <~~ do that in reality and ill see which JAIL would you end up in! cmon.Talking tom?? is ur child that miserably lonely that she need a talking tom as partner to talk to.. now u make me feel even sad for these kids for not having a real life pet and they are adopted a pet tats repeating after them as a companion!!!.

Rather than you spoil your kids with all these LUXURY items which is not even useful in their life as for now
why dont you send them to SELF DEFENSE classes like kickboxing, taekwondo classes, Muay thai classes, kungfu classes (dun underestimate the name) :P and so many other self defense classes.. they need it!! as you know you wont be able to protect your kids 24 by 7.. due to your work, and they will be having schools , tuition extra classes, co curriculum activities or hanging out with friends.. These are the times when criminal activities happen!! when they are not with their parents or alone... Knowing the fact you cant really manage to monitor them 24hours ( unless you wanna put a hidden camera on his chest to see wherever he goes ) The only way is to prepare them for the worst situation!! self defense is not only about defending yourself..

They teach you how to protect yourself , how to escape if you cant fight back, if the opponent is bigger than you what should you do!! and all the important things that our kids should be learning!!! and what parents nowdays are doing!! awww my son needs PSP and XBOX...my baby girls wants an IPHONE.. they can learn online..little that you know once they are addicted to the VIRTUAL world.. there is no way out~~ you are the reason your kids wont be able to defend themselves.. there you fail as a parent and will be blaming 100% on the criminal, knowing that you should have done your part.. at least there is a possibilities your child is safe...even if he didnt manage to escape! at least the worst situation he is in wont be traumatizing him for the rest of his life.. because he is already mentally and physically trained!! I know some of you might not agree with me or might agree!! for all i care.. i dont have a child of my own as for now~and i know you guys are like..oh you dont know wat it is like being a parent.. bla bla bla bla.. Heloo~~ i have parents too.. i didnt have all these luxury items and i didnt whine~~ they did their job perfectly well by not spoiling me~~ Even i wanted a laptop and they made me work for it and buy it with my own money~~ but i am pretty sure when i have one these kids gonna grow up the same way i did!! i want them to be strong and independent since child.. Just incase of any emergency .. i know deep down.. they would have a higher chances of surviving~~

Ignoring this might cost you a precious life.. be there for them.. not to pamper them.. They have their whole life journey ahead of them to live a luxury life and owning their very own gadgets and so on.. but as for now.. teach them the essential part of being a kid.. throw them in the mud and see them coming back
dirty from the playground.. make them sweat and run around.. teach them how to defent themselves when mommy n daddy not around~~ life is too short to waste one day without seeing the   sun shines.... life is too short to isolate yourself from the world outside..live life as it is.. love it as it is.. dont bring technology and spoil everything you had..

Remember how your life was as a kid.. bring these kids back to that environment and create a difference~~ i am not here to debate on how you should take care of your kids

but this is a small advise from someone who is not even a parent yet!! to help reduce the number of crimes dis days .. prepare them for the worst..

LIFE is not always a smooth sailing boat.. Is always an uproar battle that will sink that boat.. GET READY with a LIFE JACKET~ :)

Someting Worth Seeing :) If u wanna smile :)